Not giving up on our dreams is the hardest thing we could ever do. Not knowing how we can overcome all of the obstacles in our lives. One at a time walking through the storms, trying to stand our ground when everything is upside down.
Keeping our focus on the outcome, not how long it will take us to get there. We have a notion of time that is different from the time it takes for the universe and perfect synchronicity to get to us.
I have spent too much time running in the future not wanting to be where I was. I lost the notion of being in the moment to create my own future. Nothing is less relevant than a life spent chasing an illusion that never can come to fruition.
But when I stopped doing that, everything started to shift. We might be forced to face the worst of the worst, but at the end of the tunnel there is always happiness. Not losing faith but trying to adapt to outer conditions we are currently facing.
We also need to make sure we are not being dragged into someone else drama. Even if we are trying to help with an open heart. We can easily fall into that trap, not seeing it coming but afterwards realizing we are carrying other energies that do not help us at the end of the day.
Learning to step back and walk away. We have so much more to live for when we are centered. There is no need to become aggressive or depressed we just need to recharge our own energies. Making sure our spirit is not like a yoyo going in and out of our body.
Staying Zen is challenging enough so we do not need to add more into this madness. Happiness and joy should always lead us to a better life.