We always say old patterns are hard to get rid of but when you are accustomed to lies or cheating you need to watch out for what kind of outer condition you are creating for yourself and your loved ones.
Maybe instead of continuing to live a life of deception becoming more authentic and honest with yourself will make you understand why you are doing the same wrong things over and over. People around you will notice your misdeeds even if you try to hide it or live a double life.
Sooner or later you are going to get caught in the middle of the deception with your pants down. It will not be pretty to face; the reality and how much damage you have done. People will not trust you anymore. When your trust is broken it is difficult for the people around you to heal and forgive you.
When acting that way, for a while, one might think he/she is getting away with “murder” when in fact it is not the case. The universe will give you a chance to stop and make amends, if you are ignoring those signs then it becomes everyone for himself.
You will have to face the consequences of your actions. We all have our own free will but when we are doing something that will impact, in a negative way, our loved ones, we might think about it twice. Fifteen minutes of lust is not worth destroying a lifetime of what we have built.
It is interesting to be faced with choices and temptation along our journey. When we are grounded and happy in our personal life, we have no need to go look somewhere else. When boredom upstages our personal life, we need to be able to recognize it.
Our personal life is like a garden, if we do not attend to it, weeds will grow. Building a relationship with our mate is always a work in progress. What do I mean by that? We need to stay connected, having some weekly dates. Always keeping our love alive instead of becoming indifferent with the ones we love and believing there is something “better” on the other side of the fence.
We need to continue to cultivate and maintain a great relationship with our loved ones, almost like caring for a beautiful garden, tending it, never ignoring it. Making sure we are putting our relationship on the top of our list.