Learning to live by yourself to discover who you are

aloneA lot of people are afraid to be alone, some have moved from their parent’s house to having roommates and then getting married. If you are in that bracket and one day you end up alone, you would have no idea how to deal with it.

Most people think they have to feel the human interaction at all times. It can be debilitated to always running from one relationship to another because you do not want to be alone. Most of the time people who are doing that are making one mistake after another. Becoming unhappy because you know deep inside of you it is not the right mate for you. Trying to settle with someone to be like everyone else.

We have to learn who we are before we should start a relationship with someone. One of the reasons I am writing this blog today is not to condemn the ones who cannot live by themselves but to open everyone’s eyes.

How do you know what you really want or like? Do you compromised to please your mate so even if you do not like the way he/she is cleaning the house, cooking, wearing their clothes? You would rather close your eyes and continue a relationship that is not true love? What would happened if along the way you meet Mr. or Ms. right? Would you jump out of your current relationship?

Learning who we are is looking inside of ourselves, opening the door to our spirit. Letting ourselves shine like a star. When you are doing that you are going to attract the right people around you, including your mate. You are grounded but for most you know who you are.

You can be alone or with friends you do not have the need to feel scare but instead appreciating who you are at all time. Conformity is not part of your life, you are open to the world. You are emanating confidence, you are posed and grateful.

Your life is not a day soap full of chaos and drama but instead you are living in a state of peace and calmness.

What would it take for you to take a leap of faith and discover who you are? Learning to live by yourselves, realizing how much you can do and how independent you are.

When you know who you are, life becomes easier because you are not going to compromise your integrity neither your spirit for someone or something that is not worthy, nor you will be entering in a poor relationship with anyone. Instead you are opening the door for endless possibilities