I love that question. Why is it that when I am looking for love the only ones that comes to my door are the players or cheaters?
Before wanting to attract Mr. or Ms. right we need to do an inventory of where we are with our thoughts. Again, what we are thinking is being projected into our lives. Yes! You are reading correctly. Maybe changing the places, you are going can help you levitate the frogs in your lives. Changing our behaviors is the key to success.
If you are thinking in a negative way you are going to attract negativity into your life.
Before you decide to go on a quest to try to find your prince or princess you need to step back and check a few things.
One, are you ready for a serious relationship? What is it exactly you are looking for?
Is your motivation based on fear of being alone or the feeling of love?
What kind of mate would you like into your life? Someone who is kind, funny, delightful, responsible, faithful, etc.
You do not need to make a full grocery list about the qualities you would like to have in your mate but if you can list 5 that are important for you just do it.
Now let’s talk about the physical aspect of your mate! Yes, we need to go there, do not draw a portrait to the detail but just give some general aspects of him/her.
When you are done with your list take the time to put your hands above your heart. Close your eyes for a moment and see if your heart chakra is opening. Feel if what you have listed sounds right to you. If not, please go back to the list and make the appropriate changes, until you can feel it is right.
When you are done doing it have the list on your vision board.
The next step will be doing new activities. Yes, if you are going to the same place, doing the same thing you may meet your mate but by doing new activities you are opening the door for the Universe to help you by the law of perfect synchronicity to place you and your future mate at the same place in the near future. Remember if you are going to do new activities go with an open mind to have fun.
You need to remember the Universe will test you before you are meeting the right mate you could see more frogs. You need to remind the Universe you do not want them; the Universe will listen when you are ready.