This is an interesting question today; do you keep any secrets from your mate? Have you ever hidden something from your mate?
In this time and age with social media it can be difficult to hide any secrets, but you still can do that.
Have you ever kept something for him/her, if so what was it?
What is the reason to have done that?
We all have secrets, but do you feel you should keep them or should you come forward and share them with your mate?
Do you have any hidden talent that your mate doesn’t know about? Do you feel if you share them you would feel more vulnerable to him/her?
On the other hand, have you ever had your mate finding out about your secrets? If so how did you react about it.
Keeping secrets is a double-edged sword, if the secret you have is not harming anyone it is Ok to keep it that way. But if you are hiding something that is negative, you will sooner or later be discovered.
One funny thing I always hear from people in general is the credit card and purchases. Some individuals are out of control when it comes to expenses. They also do find some interesting way to hide receipts from shopping sprees they have done.
I have a great example, I knew someone whose wife loved to shop. She spent a lot of money on Christmas gifts for their children. To avoid as much as she could the wrath of her husband she decided, one year, to hide all the boxes in the utility room. Unfortunately for her, her husband was on the prowl because he knew she was ordering but couldn’t figure out where all the purchases were until he visited the utility room in the basement. When he turned the light on he discovered over 20 unopened boxes, he almost had a heart attack. Well, after some negotiations with his wife, he made her send back 18 boxes and only kept a couple of gifts for each kid.
I was laughing so hard when he was describing how surprised he was when he came across them. He knew she was doing it but did not realize how much she had ordered.
What is your secret?