How to live you life on your own terms

HappyConformity and a sense of belongings can be a double-edged sword. In our society most people have been taught to follow people. By not shining our own light, you are not living your life to your full potential.

We cannot be molded as robots. Some are living their lives appearing to be happy but inside they are resentful because their spirit has been screaming for so long. They are feelings their lives are passing them by.

It is difficult to change when you have been taught a certain way that doesn’t match your spirit. Your aspirations reduce to ashes. Even though we are now evolving at a faster pace with technology we are still feeling those invisible walls that restrict us from expressing ourselves.

I broke those invisible walls as a child. But not everyone has the courage to do it, some are still trapped between those walls. Resentful towards others who have claimed their freedom to become who they truly are.

How do you break those walls? How do you come out of that prison that was built by our parents and society?

First, you need to ask your spirit if you are in the right place. If you feel you have been living a “lie” or should I say an illusion, then ask the following question to your spirit: what if money wasn’t an issue, what would I want to do?

Take the time to answer truthfully even if the answers sound silly at that moment. Journal the answers, then do some research, the internet is a great source of wealth when it comes to finding what you are looking for.

Remember DO NOT let your ego take over your thoughts. How do you know your ego is speaking to you? If you start to say the following “this is stupid, you cannot do that, you will never be able to accomplish that, what are people going to think if you do that, etc.” Every single negative thought is coming from your ego. If fear is coming upon you, this is another way the ego will manifest.

You should be able to stand up for yourself, it is never too late to start to live your life on your own terms. No one should tell you what to do as an adult. Even your mate should be supportive if you want to do something new. We are all beautiful spirits.

We can take baby steps to move forward to live our life on our own terms. By doing so you start to spread your wings to freedom. The hardest part is the first step, after that it is easier. When you start to live your life on your own terms you feel alive, free, happier. You feel whole, your spirit will whisper to you.

Your view on life will shift, you are going to attract the right people at the right time. Perfect synchronicity will be the norm for you. Ask and you shall receive.

Do you live your life on your own terms?  If not, why don’t you?

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