This year let’s make a good start by keeping everyone else out of our business.
People may or may not have your best interest at heart when it comes to your personal affairs. It would be nice, if for once you can breathe and be able to make your own decisions. Not based on other people’s point of views or thoughts, but yours.
Creating your own space doesn’t mean you are closing yourself off to everyone. Instead see it as allowing yourself to have your personal space. “I can see you better over there….”
It can quickly become crowded when you invite everyone into your space. Chaos can unfold quickly along with drama and histrionics. Staying drama free as much as possible keeps you grounded.
You should be attending to your business, let everyone else taking care of their affairs. If someone has an issue but is not asking for unwanted advice, do not step in and give them some, you are not helping them. Also, if you see someone trying to find their way, let them figure it out, unless they ask you for help.
It is difficult for a lot of people to understand, because most of us are used to giving their point of view, regardless if it is wanted or unwanted. Needless to say, that in some cases, drama unfolds due to the lack of respect for someone’s space. Become an observer in their lives, by doing so you allow them to grow.
We are all moving at a different pace, even if you feel like someone is behind you. Let them learn at their own fluency, they do not need to be rescued like a puppy. Respect their timeline, they are going on their journey at the speed that is right for them.
We need to be reminded that we have our own individuality, we have our own view on reality. That said, we need to be able to support one another. We do not need to dictate what someone should be doing but provide it if asked for some advice.
Life is too short, we already have so many distractions in our lives. Why should we waste our time wanting to mind someone else’s business and let our own remain in disarray?
Create your own space this year, it will give you time to mind your own business and creates the life you always wanted.